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    Steven Davies: England cricketer announces he is gay

    The England wicketkeeper Steven Davies has announced he is gay – becoming the first professional cricketer to publicly out himself.

    By Martin Evans 11:00PM GMT 27 Feb 2011

    The 24-year-old Surrey player said he had decided to make the announcement after months of personal conflict.

    In a frank and moving interview with Monday’s Daily Telegraph, Davies, who started his professional cricketing career with Worcestershire when he was 18, said he could no longer bear to lie about his sexuality.

    Davies, who told his family he was gay five years ago and has enjoyed their complete support, said it was a huge relief to finally come clean and be honest with the wider public.

    "I'm comfortable with who I am - and happy to say who I am in public," Davies said.

    And he said he hoped his decision would help other young gay people to have the confidence to follow in his footsteps.

    He explained: “This is the right time for me…I feel it is right to be out in the open about my sexuality. If more people do it, the more acceptable it will become. That must be a good thing.

    "To speak out is a massive relief for me, but if I can just help one person to deal with their sexuality then that's all I care about."

    A former England under-19 captain, Davies, who made his international debut in 2009 during the Twenty20 in Trinidad, is widely tipped as a future star of the game.

    But he admitted hiding his sexuality has affected his relationships in the dressing room.

    He said he dreaded long international tours because he was forced to conceal an important part of his life from his team-mates.

    Davies decided to confide in his England colleagues after being called up for the recent Ashes tour to Australia.

    He said he received wonderful support from his team-mates, especially fellow wicketkeeper Matt Prior and captain, Andrew Strauss, and now looks forward to getting on with, what he hopes will be, a long and successful career at the highest level.

    Davies’s decision to out himself comes two years after Welsh rugby hero Gareth Thomas also went public about his homosexuality.

    The 36 year-old, who is currently playing for the Crusaders in Europe’s Super League, has voiced his support for Davies and said he admired his courage.

    He said: “I am really happy for Steven and pleased that he has had the strength and courage to be able to come out and be open and honest about who he is, and to see that he has the support of his family and team-mates in doing it, like I did.

    “I know how hard it is to be honest about something like this when you are in the public eye, and for him to be able to come out and talk about it at his age is refreshing and hopefully like when I came out, will encourage and inspire others to feel they can do the same. I hope that this will be just the start from him.”

    Davies admitted he had been partly inspired by Thomas’s bravery in going public about his own sexuality.

    He said: “Gareth Thomas’s story helped me. It just showed me it can be done. He was brave enough to stand up and say who he was. It was a very courageous thing to do, so if I can help anyone else like he helped me, then that would be great.

    The world of professional sport remains hugely under-represented in terms of the numbers of openly gay people.

    But campaigners hope the more who find the courage to come forward, the less of a stigma it will be for those struggling to deal with the issue.

    While Thomas’s announcement, set against the backdrop of the intensely macho game of rugby, drew widespread admiration, he was coming towards the end of his career.

    Davies’s decision to go public at such an early stage in his professional life, is seen as hugely significant in breaking down taboos surrounding homosexuality in professional sport.

    "I hope it's all going to be fine with the fans," Davies added.
    "If there is any abuse or anything then I don't need to worry about those people giving it out.

    "The people that matter to me are family, friends and my team-mates, and everyone has been so amazing, that's what counts."

    The Sussex bowler Alan Hansford, who played first class cricket between 1989 and 1992, is thought to be the only other openly gay player, but he did not go public about his sexuality until after his retirement.
    Thanks very much for being ‘This Mornings’ Farmer’

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    Steven Davies: admitting I'm gay was 'tougher than facing Brett Lee'

    He told his England team-mates before the Ashes series, but here cricketer Steven Davies explains the truth about his sexuality to Elizabeth Grice

    The England wicketkeeper Steven Davies has announced he is gay Photo: MARTIN POPE
    By Elizabeth Grice 6:15AM GMT 28 Feb 2011
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    He looks cool and collected but his mouth is dry and it’s obvious Steven Davies would rather be somewhere, anywhere, else.

    Months of personal conflict have led to this moment, when England’s talented young wicketkeeper is ready to reveal what his colleagues have known, but kept secret, since the Ashes series began last year – he is homosexual, and has struggled for years to conceal it.

    The 24-year-old Surrey player made the startling confession to his team-mates just before the tour to Australia, but they agreed to keep the story “in house” to protect him and so that it would not be a distraction.

    In a remarkable piece of mentoring, Andrew Strauss, the England captain, and Andy Flower, the coach, undertook to ring every member of the team on Davies’s behalf. “It was a fantastic thing to do,” he says. “It was a massive relief, telling the lads. The difference is huge. I am so much happier.”

    Now he admits that concealing his sexuality had become increasingly hard to bear, especially on tour when he would retreat to his hotel room because he felt so “out of the loop” when other players were exchanging banter.


    Today, through The Daily Telegraph, Davies is outing himself to the wider public. “It will be a huge relief to get this over, to be honest,” he confides.

    “It’s something I’ve lived with for a long time. Although I feel it is the right time, I am nervous about coming out. Who wouldn’t be? It’s the biggest decision I’ve had to face, and by far the toughest – bigger even than facing Brett Lee [the fearsome Australian fast bowler] in the middle.”

    Without the big gloves, he looks vulnerable and sounds taut as a wire. “If I am brutally honest, I never enjoyed touring because of my secret and having to conceal my sexuality,” he says. “My friendships with the guys would reach a certain level, then I’d have to take a step back.

    “A two-week tour would feel like two years for me. It was really tough. Cricket was my escape. When I was playing cricket I was at my happiest because all I had to worry about was getting runs and taking the catches. It was a relief to be out in the middle.”

    Being selected for the Ashes squad was not an uncomplicated pleasure: it thrilled him professionally, but he knew the social side of a three-and-a-half-month tour would be an ordeal. In dressing rooms, hotel rooms and coffee bars he felt uncomfortable and dreaded being asked even the most innocuous questions about his love life. “Sooner or later, the conversation would come round to whether I had a girlfriend. I was scared of that. I could never be totally relaxed.”

    After weeks of angst, he confided in Flower at Loughborough, a few days before the team left for Australia. The coach was practical as well as understanding. They talked for an hour about the best way forward.

    “He agreed I had to tell the boys. I couldn’t live like this any more.” Flower and Strauss refused to overplay the tension. “Their line was: 'Steve wants you to know he’s gay. But it’s not an issue. Let’s just get on with it.’ I owe them both a lot. They were 100 per cent behind me and made me feel everything would be all right. In fact, I felt I was probably making a big deal out of it.”

    Davies admits he was sick with nerves before the final batting session at Lord’s, where he faced some team-mates for the first time since the revelation. One by one, they came over to shake his hand and tell him that he had done the right thing.

    Matt Prior, the wicketkeeper, Davies’s friend and rival, went out of his way. “He came up to me and gave me a hug and we spoke for about five minutes. He couldn’t believe I had kept it to myself for this long. He said I should have told him. That was special.”

    During the Ashes, Hugh Morris, the managing director of England Cricket, told Davies that his homosexuality “would not be an issue” and supported his disclosure.

    The effect on Davies was dramatic. “I enjoyed a three-and-a-half-month tour that would previously have killed me. Once the secret was out, those months just flew by. My friendships with the boys blossomed. It’s easier now I’ve got nothing to hide. I can get fully involved in all the banter, which I love. It took a few days to get back to normal. I cracked a joke about myself and after that everything was absolutely fine.”

    Not quite, as it turned out. When Davies, reserve wicketkeeper during the Ashes but a top performer in the Twenty20 games, was dropped from the England squad for the current World Cup – in favour of Matt Prior – some cricket insiders suspected it was related to his coming out.

    Davies admits he was “shocked and gutted” but does not believe the selectors’ decision had anything to do with his confession. “It was a bitter pill to swallow, I felt sick. But that suspicion never went through my head. Unfortunately for me, Andrew thought Matt would be more suitable.”

    The left-handed wicketkeeper and batsman, who began his professional career playing for Worcester, is the first active international cricketer to admit he is homosexual.

    The very few sportsmen who have “come out”, notably the rugby player Gareth Thomas, have usually done so at the end of their career. Davies should have his best cricketing years ahead of him.

    In a world where it is easier to conform to the machismo of the group ethos than to stand out, his confession is impressive. Self-effacing, he does not see himself as a trailblazer for sport’s sexual tolerance. He had simply reached a point where evasion and dissembling were undermining his morale. “Everyone is different,” he says. “Some people are comfortable doing it [coming out].

    Others are not. This is the right time for me. 'Do I tell them or do I not?’ I didn’t want that to be my life. I feel it is right to be out in the open about my sexuality. If more people do it, the more acceptable it will become. That must be a good thing.”

    Davies says he knew he was gay when he was very young “but it was never a big deal because all I’d do was play sport”. He did not tell his parents, Mike and Lin, or his elder sister, Gemma, 26, until he was 19. “The support they have given me has been brilliant. Not everyone is so lucky.”

    His parents travelled from the family home in Kidderminster to be with him as he made his announcement. “We are proud of him,” they said, “and love him as a son, as a successful sportsman and now, hopefully, as a role model to any young person dealing with their sexuality.”

    Davies knows he has other hurdles — not least the response of cricket fans. Can he take the possible homophobic jibes, the snideness? “Yes, I did worry about it. You go through every scenario. You lose sleep. But if there is anything negative, what can I do? In cricket, the fans are very loyal. They are there to support you, rather than abuse you.

    “I have to play my best for Surrey and get back in the England side. I am still the same person. I want to be remembered as a good cricketer, not a gay cricketer.”

    Sometimes, he is accused of not being vocal enough behind the wicket. He believes that the confidence he has gained in the past months may even benefit his game. Would he now like to find a partner he could be with openly? “That’s what everyone wants, isn’t it? That special person. I’m no different. I haven’t found that person, but there is no rush. I’m still young and concentrating on my career.”

    * Steven has donated his fee for this interview to NSPCC’s ChildLine, the 24-hour helpline for children who have no one else to talk to. In the past two years, the charity has received more than 10,000 calls from children concerned about their sexuality. The number is 0800 1111. To email or talk to a counsellor online, contact www.childline.org.uk.
    Thanks very much for being ‘This Mornings’ Farmer’

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      #3
      Its a shame that its OK for Cricketers to come out, but footballers would get hounded out of the game.
      *Except Michael, who died.

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        #4
        good for him, i suspect that more and more gay sportsmen will come out now

        Gareth Thomas made a big impact but his career was over, Steven Davies' is just begining

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          #5
          In this day and age it shouldn't matter. Hope he gets the support he deserves.

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            #6
            I really hate homophobia

            Anyone who has any problems with people being gay are total nobjockeys and a real bunch of ****stabbers.

            I don't have any time for the cocksuckers.

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              #7
              Originally posted by Pablo1981 View Post
              I really hate homophobia

              Anyone who has any problems with people being gay are total nobjockeys and a real bunch of ****stabbers.
              I don't have any time for the cocksuckers.
              prob unintended pun but made me laugh.

              agreed though. gays dont bother me in sport but he will be in for a right "sleddging" when he plays.
              People who think there's no good way to die have obviously never heard the phrase 'Drug-fuelled-sex-heart-attack'.

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                #8
                Originally posted by the rev leeroy brown View Post
                prob unintended pun but made me laugh.

                agreed though. gays dont bother me in sport but he will be in for a right "sleddging" when he plays.
                Anyone that sledges Steven Davies for being homosexual is an absolute gaylord and should be banned

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by Pablo1981 View Post
                  Anyone that sledges Steven Davies for being homosexual is an absolute gaylord and should be bummed

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                    #10
                    Originally posted by Dirk07 View Post
                    good for him, i suspect that more and more gay sportsmen will come out now

                    Gareth Thomas made a big impact but his career was over, Steven Davies' is just begining
                    I salute your decision to keep him as your avatar.
                    .
                    Suppose you have a physicist and a sociologist standing at the side of a field, observing a set of events unfolding on the field. The physicist does [describes] it using the terminology of mass and velocity and frequency of radiation and the rest. And the sociologist does it by describing it as a rugby match.



                    May the Lord bless this post.

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                      #11
                      Originally posted by Pablo1981 View Post
                      I really hate homophobia

                      Anyone who has any problems with people being gay are total nobjockeys and a real bunch of ****stabbers.

                      I don't have any time for the cocksuckers.
                      Originally posted by Pablo1981 View Post
                      Anyone that sledges Steven Davies for being homosexual is an absolute gaylord and should be banned
                      i own everton fans on the internet....that's what i do

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                        #12
                        Originally posted by Neil Young View Post
                        I salute your decision to keep him as your avatar.

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                          #13
                          You could say he's now batting for the other team... I guessing that would only work if he was a batsman.

                          In all seriousness Fair play to him! Shouldn't matter in this day and age.

                          Surely it's now time for Ashley to come out of the closet!

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                            #14
                            Originally posted by Pablo1981 View Post
                            I really hate homophobia

                            Anyone who has any problems with people being gay are total nobjockeys and a real bunch of ****stabbers.

                            I don't have any time for the cocksuckers.

                            I've no problem with you at all.

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